Wicked Weekend is the night to bring out the wild, unconventional, edgy play. It’s an evening designed for the kinkiest amongst us to feel uninhibited and unencumbered by what others think kink should look like.

“IMPACT” is an all new take on our usual BDSM play party.

“Demo tops” and “Performers” will adorn the room with their talents and toys, ready for attendees to See, Try and Do, all the things.

• Paddles

• Floggers

• Canes

• Rubber Chickens

• and More

Live Music By "Super Secret DJ"

This is the one Saturday a month we let the sadists & brats run wild. Use this beautiful space in all the ways it was intended. (Seriously though, NO running, brats)

Edge players are encouraged to check in with DMs or owners before Needle Play, Fire Play, or other Edgy scenes begin.

Exhibitionists and Voyeurs are welcome. Come enjoy this wickedly kinky evening with us.

Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.

In this Shibari Basics class, @ChiefDaddyJokes & Veda delve beyond mere knots and ties. Shibari is an art form that creates a space of vulnerability, intimacy, and deep connection between partners. Whether you're a beginner or have some experience, this class will empower you to explore the emotional and physical aspects of Shibari.

-You’ll also need rope. 1-3 full ropes (24-30’). If you don’t have rope, we sell and rent it.

-This class is designed as a partnered class though some of this can be self-tied.

All levels of skill sets are welcomed to attend for a verity of reasons. If you are new to rope bondage or do not have a working understanding of the basics and fundamental you are strongly encouraged you attend the pre-class portion of the workshop at 6:00PM.

This will be a lecture, demo, see and do workshop. Expect to leave with a new tie or two and some new ideas for spicy time.

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

In the months discussion munch, we will explore  “D/s dynamics outside of the dungeon” - Ideas for day to day interactions and rituals.

Find out what others do to explore thier D/s dynamics. Have questions about your own experiance? Maybe we learn there’s other ways to enjoy something we never thought of.
Want to know more about rituals and how to make them work in your life?

We will be following our typical format of submitting questions anonymously and reading them out load for a group discussing on each one.

Peer to peer learning, sharing, and support. If you desire a greater understanding or something, have experience to share, or just want to take in more community lead education, please join us.

This is a community dialog. We encourage not only those new to kink/BDSM but also those long time experienced kinksters to come share in this conversation. If you have questions about anything Lifestyle or Dynamic related, bring it. If you desire a greater understanding or something, have experience to share, or just want to take in more community lead education, please join us.

The Burlesque Night has become one of our favorite performance events at Oblige. Fans and feather boas. Pasties and tassels. The seductive theatrical displays. The music. And of course, our performer's.

Host/Emcee: Eve Vale

Local Detroit Performers

Their hour-long show will set the stage for a kinky as fuck evening as only Oblige does.

The original concept for our monthly Performance and Play evening is rooted in the burlesque experience and other erotic art performances. We are very proud to bring events like this to you monthly and thankful for such a talented and enthusiastic performing arts community in Detroit.

Attendees are welcome to dress however they are comfortable though formal wear and kink wear are always appreciated. If you like to be "a little extra" this is a night to do that.

Doors and Social Hour at 8:00

Performances @9:00

Play party until 1:00am

This week we continue our erotic rope bondage journey with @ChiefDaddyJokes & Veda. They will be focusing on motion and intension as we manipulate bodies and apply rope in a way to form classic shibari shapes. Those new to rope will leaner a bit more of what’s possible while experienced practitioners can take a look back at some playful ties that can be re-introduced to your rope scenes.

-You’ll also need rope. 1-3 full ropes (24-30’). If you don’t have rope, we sell and rent it.

-This class is designed as a partnered class though some of this can be self-tied.

All levels of skill sets are welcomed to attend for a verity of reasons. If you are new to rope bondage or do not have a working understanding of the basics and fundamental you are strongly encouraged you attend the pre-class portion of the workshop at 6:00PM.

This will be a lecture, demo, see and do workshop. Expect to leave with a new tie or two and some new ideas for spicy time.

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

Let’s get the year started by crossing some items off your kinky bucket list. Why not come share them us and a hundred of your kinkest friends and friends to be?

If you feel like you need to “inform us” or want assistance in elaborate scene planing, please reach out. obligerope@gmail.com

If you want any of the more unique, specialty, novelty, furniture/play items you’ve seen here in the past, please reach out to ask if we can bring it out for you and others to enjoy.

... More details in your formal invite

As usual, feel free to use the space as you wish. All matters of fuckery are on the table provide you have an enthusiastic “Fuck Yes”. (Or at least a “sure, why not”) If you feel like you should check in with us before you get into your edgy things, please do.

Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.

In this class @Flynn_Racer and @-emmie- will focus on minimalistic ties used to start your rope bondage journey or to add to your list of “go to” fun things you can do quickly for floor play, warm ups or add another layer to your dynamic rope scene. With all these ties we will focus on rope handling, flow and holding tensions to increase the confidence and connection for both the person applying rope and the person receiving rope.

-You’ll also need rope. 1-3 full ropes (24-30’). If you don’t have rope, we sell and rent it.

-This class is designed as a partnered class though some of this can be self-tied.

All levels of skill sets are welcomed to attend for a verity of reasons. If you are new to rope bondage or do not have a working understanding of the basics and fundamental you are strongly encouraged you attend the pre-class portion of the workshop at 6:00PM.

This will be a lecture, demo, see and do workshop. Expect to leave with a new tie or two and some new ideas for spicy time.

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

Our Figure Drawing & Rope Jam Sunday -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

Tickets HERE

With the recent addition of "The Dungeon" at Oblige, attendees can now use the other half of the space to tie, play, socialize or relax durning the figure drawing.

This month there will be a figure-drawing opportunity at the Rope Jam. From 12:30-2:30, we will have models in rope for a few coordinated drawing sessions.
Three sessions will range from 20-30 minutes across different poses and different models. Oblige will have some materials on hand, but attendees should plan to bring their own sketching materials or tablets for digital sketches.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Our Open Play & Sunday Rope Jam -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Cost:

• Free for Members

• $10 for a Member’s Guest

• $20 for General Guests (50% for recent LEAP attendees)

No ticket sales at the door

Doors open at Noon. Come and go as you please until 5:00 PM.

Celebrating five years of LEAP classes with a new experience for some, refresher for others and hopefully some new tricks for the more experienced in the room.

In week 1 of 4 @Flynn_Racer and @-emmie- will be looking at Single Columns, Double Columns and Hojo Cuffs. Several different ways to use these very basic ties to build an erotic rope bondage scene on the floor. Not only are these foundational ties needed for shibari but these are very useful for introducing someone to rope and erotic rope bondage without fancy patterns. It’s just tying people up, down, and to themselves.

This will be an in-person only class (no livestream or recording)

-You’ll need rope. 1-3 full ropes (24-30’). If you don’t have rope, we sell and rent it.
-This class is designed as a partnered class though most of this can be self-tied.
-It can get cold during class so bring a blanket!!!
-This class with be a co-presented lecture, demo, “see and do” (tie along)

All levels of skill sets are welcomed to attend for a verity of reasons. If you are new to rope bondage or do not have a working understanding of the basics and fundamental you are strongly encouraged you attend the pre-class portion of the workshop at 6:00PM.

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

We are all probably going to hell for this (or we’ve been there already and this is how we found our way back)

Join us for a wicked weekend party disrespecting all that others hold sacred.

This is the one Saturday a month we let the sadists & brats run wild. Use this beautiful space in all the ways it was intended.

Edge players are encouraged to check in with DMs or owners before Needle Play, Fire Play, or other Edgy scenes begin.

Exhibitionists and Voyeurs are welcome. Come enjoy this wickedly kinky evening with us.

Dress to impress-

Not required but Wicked Weekends are the time to be “a little extra”.

Theme Attire

It's up to you. Angels, Sexy little devils, Nuns, priests, monks, maybe an ultra boi or two. Disgrace your own religion as you see fit. (Fetish wear and Kinky gear are perfectly acceptable too)

If going all out is not your thing then however you are comfortable is always acceptable.

Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.

6” or 6’ off the ground all rope suspensions rely on one common element to achieve flight, the upline(s), we have lift off!
In this class @Flynn_racer and @rose-in-rope will cover the essentials needed before you take off for flight. They will go over upline mechanics, upline management, upline harness attachment, upline hardpoint lock off, and upline safety.

Target audience: suspension curious rope enthusiasts with a good knowledge of the fundamentals and harnesses.

Class goal: provide upline knowlege and skills to safely take flight. And to utilize proper upline management to create a partial suspension, or take your first flight.

Class requirements: knowledge of a chest harness within your risk profile to suspend in. Knowledge of single column tie. (Bonus if you have knowledge of a hip harness within your risk profile to suspend in)

Please join us as we kick off our “Intro to Suspension” with this public workshop available to everyone.

Find out more about the full weekend here: https://www.obligerope.org/suspension-intensive

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

Friends, please feel free to contact us to request attendance. ObligeRope@gmail.com

This is our Private “invite only” Play Party for members, their guests and Guests of the House

Nothing else like a kinky Christmas Party at Oblige

• Sexy Santa to share your wish list with

• Naughty Elves

• Holiday Give Aways

• Egg nog and Desserts

As usual, feel free to use the space as you wish. All matters of fuckery are on the table provide you have an enthusiastic “Fuck Yes”. If you feel like you should check in with us before you get into your edgy things, please do.


Attire up to you. (Kinky/Fetish is always fun)

Attendance is by invite or approved request only. Please reach out with a PM or email to request the ticket link. We will not be approving anyone

1. we don’t know,

2. that does not have an establish presence in the BDSM/kink community -or-

3. glowing references from someone that does.

All of our Private Members and their guests are welcome (as always)

What’s hotter than walking around the dungeon in the rope your partner tied you in? Or wearing rope that makes you feel pretty? We often tie for a purpose: bondage, connection, suspension, pain, predicament, but what about for the sake of fashion? Join @-SirMark- and @sar-cass-tic for a fashion shibari pattern class and decorate your rope bottom!

This class will be in-person only (no livestream or recording)

This class with be a co-presented lecture, demo, “see and do” (tie along)

The fundamentals of these ties will be covered in the 6:15-7:00 portion of the event.

This class will require 3-6 hanks of 8-10m rope. No partner required for a couple of the ties.

-This class is designed as a partnered class, though some can be self tied and there is always value to being in the room. Often people attend without tying partners and there’s an opportunities for them to pair up. You are welcome to get ahead of things by posting in our group, and try to make some new friends to tie with. https://fetlife.com/groups/211293

All levels of skill sets are welcomed to attend for a verity of reasons. If you are new to rope bondage or do not have a working understanding of the basics and fundamental you are strongly encouraged you attend the pre-class portion of the workshop at 6:00PM.

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

Our Figure Drawing & Rope Jam Sunday -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

Tickets HERE

With the recent addition of "The Dungeon" at Oblige, attendees can now use the other half of the space to tie, play, socialize or relax durning the figure drawing.

This month there will be a figure-drawing opportunity at the Rope Jam. From 12:30-2:30, we will have models in rope for a few coordinated drawing sessions.
Three sessions will range from 20-30 minutes across different poses and different models. Oblige will have some materials on hand, but attendees should plan to bring their own sketching materials or tablets for digital sketches.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Our Open Play & Sunday Rope Jam -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Cost:

• Free for Members

• $10 for a Member’s Guest

• $20 for General Guests (50% for recent LEAP attendees)

No ticket sales at the door

Doors open at Noon. Come and go as you please until 5:00 PM.

Friends, please feel free to contact us to request attendance. ObligeRope@gmail.com

Attendance is by invite or approved request only. This event post is for those of us that use this platform to manage our social calendars

Announcing: Fem Dom Night- A BDSM Play Party

Tickets are on our “Invite Only” website page. Link provided to approved attendees.
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An evening for tops/Dommes/switches that identify as Female, Femme, Fem of center, to run wild and use the space as it was full intended. Those (regardless of gender) that wish to server, play, bask in or simply worship this energy are welcome to come and do so.

This strongly vetted party will be in the same regard as or members/ invite only/ private party night. No area of the space will be restricted and all attendees should feel free to explore and play as they feel comfortable, abiding to the strict event protocol.

Protocol is simple:
-ONLY Female, Femme, Fem of center, identifying folx will be permitted to “top” in play/scenes.

Full suspension is often seen by many as the “peak” of Shibari — the moment the body finally leaves the ground. But what about the moment right before lift-off? That intense nervous excitement that builds as weight is progressively suspended…but not fully!

This will be an in-person only class (no livestream or recording)

In this class, @Midnight_Shibari will be teaching a partial suspension sequence that highlights those feelings. We’ll showcase the versatility of partials by playing with elevation while still grounded, adding in a horizontal plane of motion in suspension, and progressively increasing the challenge with every transition!

Prerequisites/Tools:

Single-column tie; suspendable upper body harness; 6-8 hanks of 7-8m rope; safety shears or similar rope cutting tool

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

“The Art of Throwing It Back” with Jes (@onbeingahuman on Instagram) is a confidence-building, sexual movement class rooted in riding, receiving, sensuality, stamina, and self-expression. It's fun, affirming, and designed to help participants feel fully empowered in their bodies and in the bedroom.

For all genders, body types, and experience levels—the only requirement is that you love to throw ass!

Here’s what we get into:

• Build stamina + endurance for riding 🍆 (because sometimes our partners deserve to be the pillow princesses too 💅)

• Explore positions that reduce pain, boost confidence, and deepen body awareness

• Own your pleasure and reconnect to your power

• Props, modifications + individual attention to meet every body where they’re at

• At-home practices + journal prompts to keep the glow going

• Optional: sexy self-love photo shoot at the end of class

• Suggested Attire- Athletic wear, Lingerie, Cozy Clothes or however you are comfortable for a movement class

• Bring with you: journal, water, pillow and knee pads required.

• Class is designed for individuals to learn and explore. Partners attending together, practice separately and/or switch.

Doors at 5:00
Class 5:30-7:30/8
Space will remain open until 9:00 to enjoy as you like

Shibari and Erotic Rope performances are the cornerstone of our Performance and Play event at Oblige. This month we are welcomeing two very special out of town guests, @lex_red & @ayjay99

Please join for an 80's aerobics themed rope performance that shows off the incredible strength and flexibility of AJ, and the smooth dynamic transitions that lex_red is known for.

Attendees are welcome to dress however they are comfortable, though dress wear and kink/fetish wear are always appreciated. If you like to be "a little extra," this is the place to do that. After the performance, feel free to stay and play. Use the space as it was intended. Explore “The Dungeon” and Enjoy “The Rope Room." Find all of the space's hidden features... 😈

About our Performers

@lex_red

Lex_red (she/her) is a rope switch whose style focuses on technicality and comfortability in dynamic suspensions. As a top, her motto is "help me hurt you" and she enjoys tying partners in complex suspensions with a focus on making them as comfortable and safe as possible. She identifies as a “facilitator of pain” more than a sadist, and enjoys collaborative ties where bottoms are an active participant in where the tie goes. She has been in the community for over 10 years and teaches rope classes and workshops for all levels.

@ayjay99

AJ (she/they) joined the kink scene in August 2023 and has consistently practiced rope bondage since then. She hails from Tulsa, Oklahoma where she co-runs rope education at her home dungeon 13thfloor.  AJ considers herself both a selftier and rope switch.  As a bottom, they adore physically strenuous ties that push their body’s limits. She approaches rope from a strictly platonic space where either the goal is deepening a friendship and exhibiting levels of trust, building technical skills, or goofing around and being downright silly.

Doors and Social Hour at 8:00

Performances @9:00

Play party until 1:00am

Presented by @_MrNobody & @ser0tonin_

We call bullshit. The tea analogy is great for 101, and in many contexts, sufficient and effective. But we kinksters can complicate anything. In this class, we’re going to explore a few ways that consent is as simple as producing a Phoenix single-bush oolong tea from scratch. (The internet says that’s not simple at all.)

This class will be in-person only (no livestream or recording)

This class isn’t about rules; it’s about reckoning with complexity. Together we’ll unpack the edges of consent, examining how it shifts under power, silence, trauma, and desire. Expect a mix of discussion, scenario analysis, and some uncomfortable questions, because that’s where the good stuff lives. Bring curiosity, empathy, and your favorite tea.

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

That's right kinksters! We're bringing it back. Our end of summer 80's Rock Party.
Wear your leather and kink gear if you like but this night is made for the hair band lovers and Don Johnson fans.

Wicked Weekends is the night to bring out the wild, unconventional, edgy play. It’s an evening designed for the kinkiest amongst us to feel uninhibited and unencumbered by what others think kink should look like.

Edge players are encouraged to check in with DMs or owners before Needle Play, Fire Play, or other Edgy scenes begin.

Exhibitionists and Voyeurs are welcome. Come enjoy this wickedly kinky evening with us.

Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.

This is a FULL workshop dedicated to showing you the basics and helping you learn the fundamental elements of shibari. For those that are brand new to rope, with or without a tying partner, ready to get a solid foundation. People who have “some” rope experience can greatly benefit from this class as well.

Please join us as we kick off our “Intro to Shibari” with this public workshop available to everyone.

Find out more about the full weekend here: https://www.obligerope.org/beginner-intensive

Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

Led by Nala (Fetlife @touch-of-ivy) and Sudo (Fetlife @iampseudo), we invite you to step into a space where the sacred and the erotic meet. This class weaves lecture and guided activities to show how to incorporate deeper self awareness, fullness of expression, and transformation to bring play into something far more impactful (pun intended).

Too often, spirituality and kink are seen as opposites, one holy and one taboo. When combined, they become a powerful path of expansion. A flogger can become a ritual tool, restraint a doorway into trust, and pleasure itself a prayer. Whether your play is soft and sensual or dark and intense, adding a spiritual lens can expand your practice into new realms of connection, healing, and being.
 
This class is designed for those already immersed in kink who want to access more depth, as well as spiritual seekers curious about how kink can amplify their path - and everyone in between! Come as an individual or with a partner. All genders, identities, relationships, and experience levels are welcome!

Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

Here's another "one of a kind" evening at Oblige.

- A rare look “Backstage” into a truly profound D/s dynamic.

- Rock Concert

- Play Party

Part 1

“Setting the stage”:

Q&A / Discussion with the FMs

It's one thing to live a beautiful, intense life of power exchange; it's another to balance that life with the grind of a successful, touring band, the demands of a career, raising children, maintaining a home, and nurturing other relationships. Can a collar coexist with a rehearsal schedule, a mortgage, and a school run? Absolutely. Join @Astraea (The FMs’ Lead Singer and submissive/slave) and her owner @Athena_Kali (The FMs keyboardist & sax player) for an intimate, unscripted Q&A and class discussion exploring the true mechanics of a life lived fully at the intersection of kink and contemporary success.

Part 2

Performance

Following the Discussion: A Musical Performance by The FMS
A powerful, high-energy rock performance by The FMs, where you can hear Astraea (aka The FMs lead singer Matte) personal philosophies brought to vivid life on stage.

The FMs are a bastion of queer music, exuding sex, and style through their politically-charged pop missives and pioneered the genre of babygirl synth punk-rock. With a lineup of all queer, trans and nonbinary musicians from NYC & Upstate New York, they seek to undermine the patriarchy with ferocious love. Bearing a motto “Soft is Subversive,” The FMs bring a punk-rock barbie girl candy fever dream aesthetic with neon lights and large balloons to their now legendary live shows. They have been featured in Billboard Magazine, The NY Daily News, GLAAD, and The Showtime Network.

Find out more about The FMs

YouTube | Instagram | Spotify

Part 3

“Stay and Play”

The Dungeon & The Rope Room
After the show feel free to this beatifully kinky space “as it was intended”

Encompassing the entire 2nd floor of our building and spanning 7,000 sqft. The space is equal parts shibari studio, dungeon space and lounge, with 25+ hard points for suspension, 30+ pieces of BDSM play furniture, 25 conversational seating areas suitable for socializing and/or play. Elegant and comfortable with more amenities than we can list.

Our Figure Drawing & Rope Jam Sunday -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

Tickets HERE

With the recent addition of "The Dungeon" at Oblige, attendees can now use the other half of the space to tie, play, socialize or relax durning the figure drawing.

This month there will be a figure-drawing opportunity at the Rope Jam. From 12:30-2:30, we will have models in rope for a few coordinated drawing sessions.
Three sessions will range from 20-30 minutes across different poses and different models. Oblige will have some materials on hand, but attendees should plan to bring their own sketching materials or tablets for digital sketches.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Our Open Play & Sunday Rope Jam -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Cost:

• Free for Members

• $10 for a Member’s Guest

• $20 for General Guests (50% for recent LEAP attendees)

No ticket sales at the door

Doors open at Noon. Come and go as you please until 5:00 PM.

This week @Mjod (Ian) and @FireBunnies2 will be giving us a co-presented introduction to knife play through a sadistic lens with special emphasis on pain, fear and mind fuckery.

Mjod and FireBunnies have both been a delightful part of the Oblige community for the past couple/fe years. Ian has involved in the BDSM/Kink scene since 2009.

Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

Description

Find out what turns others on or off and here delightful discussions as to the why’s and why not’s for folx around some of their favorite and least favorite kinks.

• Maybe we learn there’s other ways to enjoy something we never thought of.

• Want to know more about a particular type of play, find out what a wide range of people feel about it.

• Unclear on what a certain type of play involves? Ask anonymously and observe what your peers have to say about it.

The more unusual the question, the better. No Kink Shaming! We will explain more when we open the event.

We will be following our typical format of submitting questions anonymously and reading them out load for a group discussing on each one.

Peer to peer learning, sharing, and support. If you desire a greater understanding or something, have experience to share, or just want to take in more community lead education, please join us.

This is a community dialog. We encourage not only those new to kink/BDSM but also those long time experienced kinksters to come share in this conversation. If you have questions about anything Lifestyle or Dynamic related, bring it. If you desire a greater understanding or something, have experience to share, or just want to take in more community lead education, please join us.

Social hour before and after the discussion.

Friends, please feel free to contact us to request attendance. ObligeRope@gmail.com

Attendance is by invite or approved request only. This event post is for those of us that use this platform to manage our social calendars

A slumber party in the dungeon. If you’ve ever wanted to spend the night chained down in the elevator or beneath a bunch of your friends in a full night cuddle pile, this is your chance. We will not be “closing” the space or ending the party. (Clearly the overnight stay is optional)

• Overnight space is limited.

• Wrist bands at the door for attendees that wish to “sleep over” (or stay past 1AM)

• Please reach out to us ahead of time if you wish to sleep over. obligerope@gmail.com

• If desired we recommend you bring our own pillow, blanket, and whatever else you may need for a restful nights sleep in the dungeon. If you intend on bringing an air mattress let us know.

• 1:00 am we will be asking attendees without wristbands to “wind it down” and head out for the evening.

“Bed time” attire is recommended for the full evening.

A good amount of us are already in our “PJs” at Oblige so why not everyone. We already know a lot of you sleep naked. 🤣
Seriously though, dress however you’re comfortable.

We are going to have some popcorn, sweets and hot chocolate on hand but you are encouraged to bring your own slumber party themed ideas.

We’ll have the big screen up showing some of our favorite cult classics, with all the cozy Oblige features pulled together for the viewing area. (As to not disturb scenes)

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As usual, feel free to use the space as you wish. All matters of fuckery are on the table provide you have an enthusiastic “Fuck Yes”. (Or at least a “sure, why not”) If you feel like you should check in with us before you get into your edgy things, please do.