This is a BDSM/Kink "Dungeon Play Class" presented by @The_Lady_V

This class is NOT a glorification of Intoxication play. Oblige, its staff and presenters do NOT endorse any non-consensual play or unethical/irresponsible consumption of substances of any kind. While Oblige does NOT permit Intox play at The Dungeon we understand this to be a kink/fetish that many folx engage in and we feel it necessary to openly discuss the risks, consent frame works, and “responsible” ways intoxicating substances can be used in consensual play.

Join Lady V for this informative & intoxicating class on "Encouraged" Intoxication! "Encouraged" Intoxication is a type of play where two consenting adults get the other to consume mind altering substances.

Imagine... turning your lover into a limp play toy, or being so blissed out as you play.

This class will mainly be covering substances that are legal in the state she resides in. (marijuana, poppers, alcohol, & mushrooms & caffeine)

Lady V will NOT be addressing how to procure any substances.

Featured Content:

• Creating consent framework around play & CNC (Consensual Non-Consent)

• Designing a container for intoxication within that framework

• Negotiation around planning, safety, & tolerances

• Encouraged inhalation & liquid consumption

• Using funnels, masks, & even panties...

• Planning & executing scenarios including somnophillia, dronification, & more!

Intoxication play is NOT permitted at Oblige or many other dungeons, house parties or other types of kink events. Please make sure to read and if you do not understand, ask the event hosts about their rules.

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

This month we're digging into D/s, M/s, and power exchange relationships — what these dynamics actually look like day to day, how they're negotiated, and where the lines get drawn between play and lifestyle. There's no single right way to do this, and how it's defined can shift a lot from person to person, and change throughout our journeys. 

Whether you're living a 24/7 dynamic, curious about exploring one, or just want to understand it better, come share your experience and questions. Questions are submitted anonymously and read aloud by our facilitators for group discussion.

Come share your our own thoughts/questions. Let’s talk it all through, share our experiences, and help old and new friends find their path.

Our Figure Drawing & Rope Jam Sunday -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

Tickets HERE

With the recent addition of "The Dungeon" at Oblige, attendees can now use the other half of the space to tie, play, socialize or relax durning the figure drawing.

This month there will be a figure-drawing opportunity at the Rope Jam. From 12:30-2:30, we will have models in rope for a few coordinated drawing sessions.
Three sessions will range from 20-30 minutes across different poses and different models. Oblige will have some materials on hand, but attendees should plan to bring their own sketching materials or tablets for digital sketches.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Our Open Play & Sunday Rope Jam -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Cost:

• Free for Members

• $10 for a Member’s Guest

• $20 for General Guests (50% for recent LEAP attendees)

No ticket sales at the door

Doors open at Noon. Come and go as you please until 5:00 PM.

Attendance is by invite or approved request only. This event post is for those of us that use this platform to manage our social calendars

Tickets are on our “Invite Only” website page. Link provided to approved attendees.

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Kinky Game Night has been a long standing party designed for those we know that won't hurt themselves, too badly. It’s been way too long and we’re feeling getting into some trouble. Let’s to do another kinky game night with all the Oblige friends.

Games for the evening:

• Name that Paddle 🏓🤨

• Pin the tail on the donkey 🪡 🫏 

• The three legged race 🥥🪢

• Sybian/Tremor Jenga 🕋😝

• Kinky Twister (relaxed rules this time)🥵🤪

• “Around the World” Rope Exhibition 🌎🪢  

Attendance is by invite or approved request only. Please reach out with a PM or email to request the ticket link.

Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.

A look at dynamic transitions in suspensions with Flynn and Rose. See how to use basic ties and harnesses to create dynamic suspension scenes. This class is part lecture, part tie-and-do. Intermediate level — an understanding of basic rope harnesses, spline attachments, and lock-offs will be important for following along.

After class Oblige staff will be on hand to assist and help you get the most out of this class experience.

You do not need a tying partner to perform all the content covered.

This will be a lecture, demo, see and do workshop.

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

This is class is a vetted class with limited capacity. To attend please see the "How to attend" section below.

This is a new style event by community request. Very different from our LEAP classes. We like to think of it as a more advanced “intensive style” workshop. Somewhere we can really hone our skills, practice, progress, and become inspired.

Elevation Rope Lab is for those that already understand the fundamentals of Japanese inspired rope bondage. It’s a space to explore intermediate and advanced ropes concepts and skills during the primary class/lab. It is also an opportunity to ask questions or share about rope topics/ties of your choosing and explore/learn as a group or a couple small groups. 

August's Primary Class/Lab:

Presented by @Serene_X & @GoldenCourtney “We will be covering fast and effective upper and lower lockoffs for highly dynamic scenes and performances. This will include upper lockoff on rings/plates as will as bamboo. you are welcome to attend this class without a tying partner. If you want to bring a bag or weights totalling 90lbs. you will be able to test all the class content.

Attendees should have a working knowledge of uplines, suspension sustainable harness and single columns.

Format for these evenings are as follows. 

Doors at 5:00
Primary Class/Lab: 5:15-6:45
Skill Share Lab: 7-8:15
The space will close at 8:30 for non-members (those unaccompanied by a member)

How to attend

Those wishing to attend can request to do so by DM and marking themselves as “going” or “interested” on this event. Please indicate in your DM if you will be, applying ropes, receiving ropes, switching or auditing. If we are not familiar with your skill set, we will reach out to discuss the prerequisites. Those wishing to audit only will be given the criteria at that time.

From there approved attendees will receive event details and ticketing links.

Prerequisites :

The expectation is that all attendees come with a practiced understanding of Japanese inspired rope bondage. What that looks like will be different for all of us. Basically if you feel comfortable following along and keeping up with most rope classes, you will be able to follow along and keep up here. If not you are always welcome to audit the class and soak up what you can. 

• People applying ropes should have a working understanding of suspension uplines and attaching styles. 

• People receiving ropes should have body awareness and be able to and willing to effectively communicate their limits while in ropes

• All attendees, tying or being tied, should have a good understanding of nerve risks and indicators of trouble. They should also be able to care for themselves and be accountable for their own tolerances while in an educational setting

• Attendees at any skill level are welcome to audit the class

• You will want a full rope kit and something to take notes
  This evening is designed for partnered tying, while the ticketing for the events is per individual. 

Attendance is by invite or approved request only.

Announcing: Fem Dom Night- A BDSM Play Party

Tickets are on our “Invite Only” website page. Link provided to approved attendees.
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An evening for tops/Dommes/switches that identify as Female, Femme, Fem of center, to run wild and use the space as it was full intended. Those (regardless of gender) that wish to server, play, bask in or simply worship this energy are welcome to come and do so.

This strongly vetted party will be in the same regard as or members/ invite only/ private party night. No area of the space will be restricted and all attendees should feel free to explore and play as they feel comfortable, abiding to the strict event protocol.

Protocol is simple:
-ONLY Female, Femme, Fem of center, identifying folx will be permitted to “top” in play/scenes.

**Attendance is by invite or approved request only. Please reach out with a PM or email to request the ticket link.

We will NOT be approving:

1. Anyone we don’t know,

2. Anyone that does not have an established presence in the BDSM/kink community
   -or-

3. Anyone that can't provide a glowing references from someone above.

All of our Private Members and their guests are welcome (as always) but will need to follow the protocol for the evening.

Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.

Presented by: @_MrNobody & @ser0tonin_

Kinksters talk a lot about “risk profiles,” but what does that actually mean?

Most of us don’t list our risk profile in our Fet “about me” section, and during negotiation we tend to focus on interests, limits, and boundaries rather than discussing risk directly. Yet every person has a unique risk profile, whether they’ve consciously examined it or not.

THIS WILL BE AN INPERSON ONLY CLASS (no livestream or recording)

In this class, we’ll explore what a risk profile is and how understanding it can help us make more informed decisions about play. We’ll also discuss factors and considerations that contribute to individual risk.

Attendees will learn how to identify potential risks, consider strategies for risk mitigation, and evaluate their personal tolerance for those risks.

Whether you’re new to kink or have years of experience, this class will provide a framework for better understanding your own relationship with risk, building your “risk profile,” and for having more meaningful conversations about risk with others.

Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

As part of our “Rope In” rope bottoming intensive weekend, we will be hosting another one of a kind play party and performance nights

This night will be featuring “spotlight” shibari performances by some of our weekend presenters plus several more by oblige staff and members. Unlike our typical performance night, following the first performance the space will open up for you to move around, explore and play as you wish. Other performances will “pop up” throughout the night for you to enjoy at your leisure.

Schedule

• Doors at 8:00PM

• Find a seat in The Rope to enjoy our first performance at 9:00 or use The Dungeon as you like.

• By 9:45 the entire space will be yours to move about and enjoy amongst the amazing talent of the other performers happening around you unti 1:00AM

Presented by: @Midnight_Shibari

In this class, JJ will give details into the nerves commonly at risk throughout the body as well as visual demonstration. Attendees will have the opportunity to take what we go over and search for areas of risk on your own body as everyone’s anatomy is a little different with varying nerve sensitivities. We’ll then go over different safety checks that can be used and which nerves they test for, so you can better identify where the issue is and can adjust the rope quicker. The last part of class will focus on what happens if a suspected nerve injury occurs and what current medical literature suggests is beneficial.

THIS WILL BE AN INPERSON ONLY CLASS (no livestream or recording)

All levels welcomed

Prerequisites/Tools:

basic rope safety knowledge

This will be a lecture, demo, see and do workshop.

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

Welcome to our Erotic Spirituality Series at Oblige

A four part series building to, and in preparation for our “TEMPLE” night October 17th

Full series class list here

About this event

This will be a special evening focusing on Kink for Somatics & Trauma Healing. Featuring Sudo & Adrianna

Schedule:

• Doors at 5:00

• Classes 6:00PM - 8:00PM

• Space will remain open following the class until 9:00PM

This is a BDSM/Kink "Dungeon Play Class" presented by @Rose_of_Kali & @EyesOfTheMoon

Are you interested in little play? Do you really not understand why people do this? Are you beginning to grow a CG/l relationship? Come ask a CG/l player. 
This class is intended to provide nuanced, consent-focused education about CG/l, age play, and ABDL dynamics by creating personal connection, addressing assumptions, and giving a framework for safe, consensual play. This class is for anyone interested in learning more; whether you practice, want to explore, or find yourself around CG/l (which is more likely than you might think!). Your presenters Rose_of_Kali and Eyesofthemoon will dive into definitions, dispell misconceptions, and lay a framework for safe play in this particular niche.
All experience levels welcome
Solo or Partnered
This class will be presented in lecture/discussion style format

Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

This month's discussion:

This month at our munch, we'll be discussing "the kink scene" — virtual and/or in-person communities — and how these can look entirely different from region to region, city to city, and even from one space to another. It can be A LOT. Even those of us who've been doing this for a while can be surprised by how the community grows and shifts around us.

Come share your our own thoughts/questions. Let’s talk it all through, share our experiences, and help old and new friends find their path. (Event & Discussion Below)

Tickets HERE

Our Figure Drawing & Rope Jam Sunday -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

Tickets HERE

With the recent addition of "The Dungeon" at Oblige, attendees can now use the other half of the space to tie, play, socialize or relax durning the figure drawing.

This month there will be a figure-drawing opportunity at the Rope Jam. From 12:30-2:30, we will have models in rope for a few coordinated drawing sessions.
Three sessions will range from 20-30 minutes across different poses and different models. Oblige will have some materials on hand, but attendees should plan to bring their own sketching materials or tablets for digital sketches.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Our Open Play & Sunday Rope Jam -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Cost:

• Free for Members

• $10 for a Member’s Guest

• $20 for General Guests (50% for recent LEAP attendees)

No ticket sales at the door

Doors open at Noon. Come and go as you please until 5:00 PM.

“To see others suffer does one good, to make others suffer, even more.”

First of it's kind at Oblige
Join us for this clinical vibe play party and help us turn Oblige into a Science lab filled with all sorts of kinky experiments, tests and trials.

Doctors, Mad Scientist, Helpless Patients, Eager Nurses. However you choose to show up, bring your kinky, sexy, erotic energy and enjoy the fuck out of this magical space. 

Things to think about getting into this evening:

• Medical play - lab coats, nurses outfits, hospital gowns

• Sounding - sterile lube, stainless steel, lil-vibes

• Sharps - scalpels, needles, nails

• Electro play - E-stem, tasers, cattle prods

• Exams -Gloves, ring lights, wet pads

• Stretching -Fisting, bowling pins, traffic cones

• Restrain play - bondage, straitjackets, blindfolds

• “Forced” O’s -manual or automatic (Renovations required for “Flynn’s Workshop”)

If you need to get in early to set up “more elaborate scenes” or equipment, let us know and we will do our best to oblige.

Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.

Getting in the air with Paul and Courtney
Using basic harness, attachments and up line, we will be look at the fundamentals involved in beginning to come off the ground.

After class Oblige staff will be on hand to assist and help you get the most out of this class experience.

You do not need a tying partner to perform all the content covered.

This will be a lecture, demo, see and do workshop.

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

Looks like there’s an extra Thursday in July, so why not celebrate with a bit of kinky fun?

No class this week. No formal performances. Instead, we’re bringing in some pizza, dragging all the furniture out, and having a good old-fashioned play party. Play as you wish within the rules until midnight, this week.

Come as you are or dress as kinky as you like.

Doors at 7 (not 6:00 this week!)
Pizza to follow shortly after
Stay and play until MIDNIGHT

This is class is a vetted class with limited capacity. To attend please see the "How to attend" section below.

This is a new style event by community request. Very different from our LEAP classes. We like to think of it as a more advanced “intensive style” workshop. Somewhere we can really hone our skills, practice, progress, and become inspired.

Elevation Rope Lab is for those that already understand the fundamentals of Japanese inspired rope bondage. It’s a space to explore intermediate and advanced ropes concepts and skills during the primary class/lab. It is also an opportunity to ask questions or share about rope topics/ties of your choosing and explore/learn as a group or a couple small groups. 

July's Primary Class/Lab:

Presented by @Flynn_Racer & @-emmie- “Floating vertical bamboo”. This advanced class will focus on two primary subjects. First will be “rigging” bamboo to “float” or be suspended by one end. The second portion of the class will be applying the concept from our Hashira Immersion with Mr_Arrow. (basic hasira ties)

Attendees should have a working knowledge of uplines, suspension sustainable harness and single columns. For this class skillshare time will be replaced with class lab time

Format for these evenings are as follows. 

Doors at 5:00
Primary Class/Lab: 5:15-6:45/7 
Skill Share Lab: 7-8:15 (For this class skillshare time will be replaced with class lab time)
The space will close at 8:30 for non-members (those unaccompanied by a member)

How to attend

Those wishing to attend can request to do so by DM and marking themselves as “going” or “interested” on this event. Please indicate in your DM if you will be, applying ropes, receiving ropes, switching or auditing. If we are not familiar with your skill set, we will reach out to discuss the prerequisites. Those wishing to audit only will be given the criteria at that time.

From there approved attendees will receive event details and ticketing links.

Prerequisites :

The expectation is that all attendees come with a practiced understanding of Japanese inspired rope bondage. What that looks like will be different for all of us. Basically if you feel comfortable following along and keeping up with most rope classes, you will be able to follow along and keep up here. If not you are always welcome to audit the class and soak up what you can. 

• People applying ropes should have a working understanding of suspension uplines and attaching styles. 

• People receiving ropes should have body awareness and be able to and willing to effectively communicate their limits while in ropes

• All attendees, tying or being tied, should have a good understanding of nerve risks and indicators of trouble. They should also be able to care for themselves and be accountable for their own tolerances while in an educational setting

• Attendees at any skill level are welcome to audit the class

• You will want a full rope kit and something to take notes
  This evening is designed for partnered tying, while the ticketing for the events is per individual. 

Our Shibari Performances are the cornerstone of our monthly “Performance & Play” night at Oblige.

Since March of 2021 we have featured dozens of rope, burlesque, and BDSM performers to the stage. Being able to offer live erotic art performance is a dream come true for us and we are so honored that so many people continue to support our vision and come out each month to witness these truly unique shows.

This month Oblige is featuring two of our amazing local community members. @PersuasivePeach & @anyette

We have watched them learn, grow, teach others and share their obsession with us for years.

Doors and Social Hour at 8:00

Performances @9:00

Play party until 1:00am

Presented by: @Flynn_Racer and @-emmie-

Intro to suspension: Equipment, Suspension Physics, Upline attachments, and upline lock offs for partial suspension

Starting your rope journey? so many different equipment options, I will go through the needed elements, and some information to assist your exploration and purchases. Then we discuss the Physics of suspension and mechanical advantage.
Follow-along, Demo and Do upline discussions, lock off functions,and exploring the various upline attachments and their applications, and the various upline lockoffs and their applications.

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

Welcome to our Erotic Spirituality Series at Oblige

A four part series building to, and in preparation for our “TEMPLE” night October 17th

Full series class list here

About this event

This will be a full day multi class workshop focusing on Worship & Sex Magic. Featuring Nala, Sudo, Adrianna & Iorthani

Schedule:

• Doors at Noon

• Classes 1:00PM - 8:00PM

• Dinner Break 4:00PM - 5:00PM

• Space will remain open following the class until 8:30PM

Announcing “Sanctum” @Oblige: A High Protocol Night:

This event is by invite or approved request only

• If you've attended events with us before and are interested in this evening, please reach out and request attendance.

You are summoned to a sanctum of refined power and exquisite surrender at Oblige. This is not merely a play party; it is a curated space for the discerning power exchange player, a space where the intricate dance of devotion and command is revered. Here, within a framework of sacred High Protocol, we invite you to shed the mundane and step into the full expression of your D/s dynamic. This is an evening dedicated to the art of power exchange, designed for seasoned practitioners, devoted couples, and solitary seekers who yearn for a connection forged in honor, respect, and profound intensity.

More details will be revealed with you formal invitation

Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.

Our Figure Drawing & Rope Jam Sunday -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

Tickets HERE

With the recent addition of "The Dungeon" at Oblige, attendees can now use the other half of the space to tie, play, socialize or relax durning the figure drawing.

This month there will be a figure-drawing opportunity at the Rope Jam. From 12:30-2:30, we will have models in rope for a few coordinated drawing sessions.
Three sessions will range from 20-30 minutes across different poses and different models. Oblige will have some materials on hand, but attendees should plan to bring their own sketching materials or tablets for digital sketches.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Our Open Play & Sunday Rope Jam -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Cost:

• Free for Members

• $10 for a Member’s Guest

• $20 for General Guests (50% for recent LEAP attendees)

No ticket sales at the door

Doors open at Noon. Come and go as you please until 5:00 PM.

Sixth Annual Summer “Wet” Party at Oblige
This signature party has been amongst our more mysterious and coveted parties. Attendees take this theme in any and all directions making “wet” dreams come true and adding to Oblige lore.

You can plan on:

• The boat being back

• T-shirt give away 😜

• Play sheets to get messy on

• And some tried and true “wet” party games

Bring your own supplies for your own thing and a plan to clean up after yourselves. No shower drain clogs this year, please. Keep the unfractionated coconut oil at home and remove ALL cake and frosting from your body before showering. We have squeegees for you if needed.

Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.

"Introduction to Hashira" with Mr-Arrow & subzq2

This class is an a la carte excerpt from our Hashira Immersion Weekend presented by @Mr_Arrow & @subzq2

(This is an in-person only event. There will be no livestream or recording.)

Hashira Shibari is the Japanese inspired rope bondage art of tying someone to an upright post, beam, or column. Translating to "pole or pillar binding," this advanced technique restricts movement by pressing the partner against a stationary surface, creating deep immobility, intense weight distribution, and strong erotic tension.

Before modern ceiling suspensions and bamboo rigs, tying to architectural pillars (or hashira) was the standard method of choice in historic Japanese homes. The post can act as a rigid anchor point to achieve kneeling, seated, standing, or partial suspension scenes.

This session will start by explaining the concept of a hashira and how to prepare a vertical pole for rope play / suspension by creating a variety of pole hard points.  We will explore standing and seated ties, and will conclude by teaching the “classic” hashira suspension, where the bottom is upright with their back tied to the pole 

Additional hashiras will be installed around The Rope Room for this weekend

About your presenters

@Mr_Arrow & @subzq2 are rope and kink educators.  Mr_Arrow is the creator of the “Dungeon Pole” style of dungeon furniture, which we believe is the first free-standing, portable vertical pole designed for kinky play that is strong enough to perform suspension.  Details at https://dungeonpoles.com/resources. 
 
They have also written a collection of essays about kink and D/s, informed by their 24/7, M/s relationship as a longtime married couple.  Available for free at https://dungeonpoles.com/power_and_love. 

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed