Performance & Play
Saturday December 12th
Shibari Performance
Featuring Ropunawa & Freya
Our Performance & Play evenings at @Oblige are rooted in live erotic performance, with Shibari, BDSM, kink, and fetish play at the foundation of it all. This month, our performers join us from Switzerland, bringing a style and connection unlike anything we've seen before.
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RopuNawa first encountered Shibari/Kinbaku in 2008 at a performance in Australia. This performance stayed with him on his way back to Switzerland, where he began his own journey with the rope. He formed the foundation from Osada Steve’s style, which was taught in Switzerland at that time. However, he did not stay with this one style, but was inspired by many other teachers. For RopuNawa, there is not one way to tie, but the heart of his style lies in the need of his model. These needs can be as diverse as the individuality of the people themselves, and through the diversity of his style, he can best respond to his partners needs and wants. He appreciates the non verbal connection, that he can create with each tying partner.
The aesthetics he picked up while first getting to know Naka’s style, who influenced him early on. While Naka still accompanies him today, Tifereth has inspired him on this path for the last 2 years as well.
Yoroi was another of his great first influences, who’s style gave RopuNawa’s taste for less is more space to develop. Yagami Ren also influenced him in this direction.
Today RopuNawa unites parts of all these styles in his personal rope art, which he lives and teaches in Basel to students all over the world, as he continues to travel worldwide, giving workshops and getting inspired by his old teachers and new encounters.
Find out more about his space and offerings here https://www.tyingwithfriends.com/
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Freya discovered rope in 2015. Driven by her fascination with communication through the body — beyond words and algorithms — she found herself repeatedly drawn to Shibari. Through this practice, she explored and deepened both intensity and the subtle dynamics shared with her partner.
Immersing herself in the art of rope bondage has become an essential platform for her personal expression. Within physical limitations, she experiences an unexpected sense of freedom that arises through surrender. By embracing boundaries, her mind becomes an explorer, venturing into realms of imagination and self-discovery.
As both, a model and educator, it is deeply important to her to share a balanced and authentic perspective on the development as a Shibari model. She values transparency about growth, challenges, responsibility, and the emotional depth that accompanies this path. For her, education is not only about technique, but about encouraging awareness, critical reflection, and a sustainable approach.
Since 2018, her ongoing passion has taken her across international stages as a model for workshops, photo shoots, and performances — allowing her to deepen her perspective and share her experiences.
Attendees are welcome to dress however they are comfortable, though dress wear and kink/fetish wear are always appreciated. If you like to be "a little extra," this is the place to do that.
After the performance, feel free to stay and play. Use the space as it was intended. Explore “The Dungeon” and Enjoy “The Rope Room." Find all of the space's hidden features... 😈
Find out more about our performers on their socials
Website: https://www.tyingwithfriends.com
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/_freyahellesdim_/
https://www.instagram.com/ropu.nawa/
FetLife:
Doors and Social Hour at 8:00
Performance at 9:00
Stay & Play until 1:00AM