Munch

A casual social gathering and group discussion for those new and old to the rope/kink/BDSM scene. Socialize, eat, learn, and connect with like-minded folx.

📅 Wednesday September 9th

D/s, M/s & Power Exchange Dynamics

This month we're digging into D/s, M/s, and power exchange relationships — what these dynamics actually look like day to day, how they're negotiated, and where the lines get drawn between play and lifestyle. There's no single right way to do this, and how it's defined can shift a lot from person to person, and change throughout our journeys.

Whether you're living a 24/7 dynamic, curious about exploring one, or just want to understand it better, come share your experience and questions. Questions are submitted anonymously and read aloud by our facilitators for group discussion.

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How the evening works

6:15 PM

Doors open

First time here? Come right at 6:15 — it helps to arrive as the space opens.

6:30 – 7:10 PM

Social hour & meal

Catered by a local deli. Note your meal choice next to your Fet/preferred name at registration.

7:10 – 9:00 PM

Formal group discussion

Write your questions or thoughts on a card during social hour. Facilitators read each one aloud and open it up to the group.

9:00 – 10:00 PM

Open space

Stick around for socializing, small-group conversation, or a tour of the space.

Meal Choices

Italian · Chicken · Turkey · Vegan · GF

Meal & Ticket Deadline

Tuesday before, 10 AM

These discussions welcome experienced kinksters and total newcomers alike — it's that mix that makes them work. Come share, ask questions, and think it through with the group.

This is our monthly "Topic" munch, covering kink, polyamory, BDSM lifestyles, and relationship enhancement. Your input shapes this community — come participate.

Hosted at Oblige Rope, Kink, Art Boutique — Detroit, Michigan

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