This is class is a vetted class with limited capacity. To attend please see the "How to attend" section below.

This is a new style event by community request. Very different from our LEAP classes. We like to think of it as a more advanced “intensive style” workshop. Somewhere we can really hone our skills, practice, progress, and become inspired.

Elevation Rope Lab is for those that already understand the fundamentals of Japanese inspired rope bondage. It’s a space to explore intermediate and advanced ropes concepts and skills during the primary class/lab. It is also an opportunity to ask questions or share about rope topics/ties of your choosing and explore/learn as a group or a couple small groups. 

April’s Primary Class/Lab:

A "Thigh Binder" with Paul and Courtney
We use this tie as an alternative to a folded leg binder or “Futo”. It is a one rope tie that, when suspended gives the body the same shape that a futo would, without the shin pain. It can be tied in suspension sequences while the person in ropes is already in the air. We plan to demo ALL the ways we use this and attachment points.

Format for these evenings are as follows. 

Doors at 5:00
Primary Class/Lab: 5:15-6:45/7 
Skill Share Lab: 7-8:15
The space will close at 8:30 for non-members (those unaccompanied by a member)

How to attend

Those wishing to attend can request to do so by DM and marking themselves as “going” or “interested” on this event. Please indicate in your DM if you will be, applying ropes, receiving ropes, switching or auditing. If we are not familiar with your skill set, we will reach out to discuss the prerequisites. Those wishing to audit only will be given the criteria at that time.

From there approved attendees will receive event details and ticketing links.

Prerequisites :

The expectation is that all attendees come with a practiced understanding of Japanese inspired rope bondage. What that looks like will be different for all of us. Basically if you feel comfortable following along and keeping up with most rope classes, you will be able to follow along and keep up here. If not you are always welcome to audit the class and soak up what you can. 

• People applying ropes should have a working understanding of suspension uplines and attaching styles. 

• People receiving ropes should have body awareness and be able to and willing to effectively communicate their limits while in ropes

• All attendees, tying or being tied, should have a good understanding of nerve risks and indicators of trouble. They should also be able to care for themselves and be accountable for their own tolerances while in an educational setting

• Attendees at any skill level are welcome to audit the class

• You will want a full rope kit and something to take notes
  This evening is designed for partnered tying, while the ticketing for the events is per individual. 

More than just a rope class

The workshop portion of the evening is only half of the event. The second half of the evening is going to be a bit of an “uncon” session. If there is something attendees want to learn or teach/share with others, you are encouraged to ask/offer. We will be collecting note cards with your questions, desires to learn or offerings to teach. During a quick break between sessions, attendees will silently select their preferences and we will break into 1-3 smaller groups to explore the topics that suit us. 
To attend please sign up through the schedule below
Tickets are per person. The primary class will be focused for tying pairs. When you are signing up please indicate if will be:
-applying ropes 
-receiving ropes
-switching 
-auditing

It’s about time. After years of negotiation and heavy edge play @Serene_X & @GoldenCourtney are ready to bring their experience and insight to you.

Staring into the dark abyss of our desires, how do we navigate those waters and bring to life our darker fantasies and edgier play? Or should we?

In this class we will discuss how to identify those taboo desires and urges in ourselves, how we get comfortable talking about them, and potentially bringing them to light as we step over the threshold to “a point of no return”

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

Attendance is by invite or approved request only.

Announcing: Fem Dom Night- A BDSM Play Party

Tickets are on our “Invite Only” website page. Link provided to approved attendees.
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An evening for tops/Dommes/switches that identify as Female, Femme, Fem of center, to run wild and use the space as it was full intended. Those (regardless of gender) that wish to server, play, bask in or simply worship this energy are welcome to come and do so.

Special to us this evening:

Following their full day “Modern FemDom” workshop, Goddess @GretaVDT & @ThatBigBadCoyote, form Saint Louis, will be hosting you, along with all of their workshop attendees. Find out more about that HERE

This strongly vetted party will be in the same regard as or members/ invite only/ private party night. No area of the space will be restricted and all attendees should feel free to explore and play as they feel comfortable, abiding to the strict event protocol.

Protocol is simple:
-ONLY Female, Femme, Fem of center, identifying folx will be permitted to “top” in play/scenes.

**Attendance is by invite or approved request only. Please reach out with a PM or email to request the ticket link.

We will NOT be approving:

1. Anyone we don’t know,

2. Anyone that does not have an established presence in the BDSM/kink community
   -or-

3. Anyone that can't provide a glowing references from someone above.

All of our Private Members and their guests are welcome (as always) but will need to follow the protocol for the evening.

Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.

“Modern FemDom”

A Four-Part Workshop & Invite Only FemDom Night

Join us for a full day with Goddess @GretaVDT & @ThatBigBadCoyote as they take us through a series of FemDom focused classes and lead us into an evening dedicated to those that are passionate about Femme led dynamics, FemDom and the energy that brings to private parties at Oblige.

Here's the details

Doors at 9:00am with a social hour/meet & greet

Morning sessions:

10:00 AM - 11:00 AM) “Modern Femdom”:

Goddess Greta shares her personal experiences and beliefs as well as a primer for anyone who is unfamiliar with the reality of Femdom

11:15 AM - 12:45 AM “CBT in Rope”:

CBT changes how we use and think about rope on our bottoms. This class will go over basic safety, ways to assert your dominance, and types of rope that are acceptable. We will also cover devices and tools that can be used alongside your rope to heighten the experience.

Lunch Break / Stay and Play

12:45 PM - 1:45 PM

Use the space as you wish if you would like to practice the morning content

Afternoon sessions:

1:45 PM - 2:45 PM “Accessible High Protocol”:

Through the lens of a modern Fem Dom. Something to think about as a foundation for evenings play party.

3:00 PM - 4:30 PM “Ritual Mummification & Objectification Mummification 101”:

In this class we will focus less on connecting with your bottom and creating intimacy, and more on using mummification to provide the experience of objectification and how we can increase it with sensory deprivation. We will also cover basic human furniture play and other aspects of using your bottom as your object. In the final 30 minutes there are some very quick partial body mummifications you can try. Greta & Coyote will be available to give some hands-on instruction and aid.

Dinner break

4:30 PM - 8:00 PM

Use the space as you wish durning this break. Those that wish to rest, clean up, or play, are welcome to do so until the party begins

FemDom Night Private Party

8:00 PM - 1:00 AM(ish)

An evening for tops/Dommes/switches that identify as Female, Femme, Fem of center, to run wild and use the space as it was fully intended. Those (regardless of gender) that wish to serve, play, bask in or simply worship this energy are welcome to come and do so.

Protocol is simple: ONLY Female, Femme, Fem of center, identifying folx will be permitted to “top” in play/scenes.

Doors and Social Hour at 8:00

Performances @9:00

Play party until 1:00am

Our Performance & Play evenings @Oblige, are rooted in live erotic performance with BDSM/Kink/Fetish play at the foundation of them all. This month our performers have ALL of that for you and more!

*Joining us from Saint Louis, Missouri, Goddess @GretaVDT and @ThatBigBadCoyote are bringing us a FemDom performance featuring elements of selftie rope suspension, CBT, sensation play. *

Doors and Social Hour at 8:00pm
Performances at 9:00pm
Stay and play after the performance until 1:00am

Please come early to get checked in. Doors are closed at 10:30pm. No guaranteed entry during the performance. If you are buying tickets for a person other than yourself you will need to buy them separate and please use their proper information.

Attendees are welcome to dress however they are comfortable, though nice evening wear and kink/fetish wear are always appreciated. If you like to be "a little extra," this is a night to do that. After the performance, feel free to stay and play. Use the space as it was intended. Explore “The Dungeon” and Enjoy “The Rope Room." Find all of the space's hidden features... 😈

Doors and Social Hour at 8:00

Performances @9:00

Play party until 1:00am

Join @Flynn_Racer and @-emmie- as they share their “Pretty Patterns and Wearable Shibari" class. In this class we will explore basic patterns, and classic shibari designs. These ties also function as "wearable shibari" for next event you want to be a bit extra at.

The ties will be applying basics to allow participants to understand flow and rope movement while creating something fun and enjoyable, all while practicing basic building blocks

All experience levels welcome

For class you will need 3-5 hanks of 8-10M rope

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

The Burlesque Night has become one of our favorite performance events at Oblige. Fans and feather boas. Pasties and tassels. The seductive theatrical displays. The music. And of course, some of our favorite Detroit performer's.

Host/Emcee: Eve Vale

Joined by some of Detroit's finest performers.

Their hour-long show will set the stage for a kinky as fuck evening as only Oblige does.

Doors and Social Hour at 8:00

Performances @9:00

Play party until 1:00am

Kinky Psychology: Intellectual Sadism explores how psychological insight, communication, and perception can be used to create powerful mental dynamics within consensual power exchange. Presented by @BegForMissVee, his class focuses on the concept of intellectual sadism, where influence and control are expressed through words, emotional awareness, and an understanding of another person’s mind rather than through physical intensity.

You will learn how to identify a partner’s desires, fears, and psychological triggers, and how these elements can shape a dynamic. This class examines how language, tone, and perception can impact a submissive’s mental and emotional state, and how these tools can be used responsibly within consensual kink.

We also cover important topics such as recognizing and responding to sub-drop, different types of aftercare that support psychological play, and ways to maintain emotional safety when engaging in mentally intense dynamics. The goal is to help you better understand the psychological aspects of power exchange while emphasizing consent, communication, and care for all partners involved.

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

This month's discussion:

Recovery in kink. “What it’s like as a recovering addict or alcoholic in Kink"
Many kinksters are in recovery from substance abuse. What is it about the kink lifestyle that so many former addicts gravitate to? BDSM can act as a powerful, non-chemical way to experience intensity, connection, and vulnerability, which can actually foster, rather than hinder, sobriety. Replacing alcohol/drugs with intentional and consensual BDSM can provide the emotional release and endorphin rush that was previously sought through substances. 

If you are in recovery, or substance abuse has touched your life in some way please join us in this months discussion so we can better understand our partners and peers in recovery.

Come share your our own thoughts/questions. Let’s talk it all through, share our experiences, and help old and new friends find their path. 

Doors open at 6:30PM and the munch will run until 10:00PM.
Social hour takes place before and after the actual discussion.

Tickets HERE

Our Figure Drawing & Rope Jam Sunday -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

Tickets HERE

With the recent addition of "The Dungeon" at Oblige, attendees can now use the other half of the space to tie, play, socialize or relax durning the figure drawing.

This month there will be a figure-drawing opportunity at the Rope Jam. From 12:30-2:30, we will have models in rope for a few coordinated drawing sessions.
Three sessions will range from 20-30 minutes across different poses and different models. Oblige will have some materials on hand, but attendees should plan to bring their own sketching materials or tablets for digital sketches.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Our Open Play & Sunday Rope Jam -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Cost:

• Free for Members

• $10 for a Member’s Guest

• $20 for General Guests (50% for recent LEAP attendees)

No ticket sales at the door

Doors open at Noon. Come and go as you please until 5:00 PM.

Wicked Weekend is the night to bring out the wild, unconventional, edgy play. It’s an evening designed for the kinkiest amongst us to feel uninhibited and unencumbered by what others think kink should look like. All types of BDSM play are possible.

“SUSPENSION” is our unique take on the “typical” BDSM play party.

"Demo Tops" and Performers will be stocked around the space to deliver rope suspension scenes for those interested in this unique experience.

This is the one Saturday a month we let the sadists & brats run wild. Use this beautiful space in all the ways it was intended. (Seriously though, NO running, brats)

Edge players are encouraged to check in with DMs or owners before Needle Play, Fire Play, or other Edgy scenes begin.

Exhibitionists and Voyeurs are welcome. Come enjoy this wickedly kinky evening with us.

Dress to impress-

Not required but Wicked Weekends are the time to be “a little extra” with the attire.
If going all out is not your thing, then however you are comfortable is fine.

Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.

Ready for the mean rope that will have your partner making all the lovely sounds? In this class, @Midnight_Shibari and @I_am_Her, we’ll be exploring spicy and sadistic rope. The rope that adds another element to the craft! After starting with an introduction on safety and risks involved, we’ll go over how to tie the popular Guatemalan torture tie, a toe/foot tie, and a few ways to add some mean elements to your rope scenes. This is how you get those lovely sounds whilst being intentional and engaged in one of the many ways to practice rope.

Please be mentally prepared for screams/cries throughout, both during demonstration and from other participants as we move through class. Things often heat up quickly!

This is an In-Person ONLY class. No LiveStream or Recording

A tying partner is encouraged, but not necessary. Please feel free to sit in and just listen or tie solo if that’s your comfort. This is a class that will highlight and educate you in the art of adding an edge to the rope we already love.

Level: All levels
 
Prerequisites/Tools: basic rope safety knowledge, single-column tie, half-hitches; 1-2 hanks of 7-8m rope; safety shears or similar rope cutting tool

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

This is class is a vetted class with limited capacity. To attend please see the "How to attend" section below.

This is a new style event by community request. Very different from our LEAP classes. We like to think of it as a more advanced “intensive style” workshop. Somewhere we can really hone our skills, practice, progress, and become inspired.

Elevation Rope Lab is for those that already understand the fundamentals of Japanese inspired rope bondage. It’s a space to explore intermediate and advanced ropes concepts and skills during the primary class/lab. It is also an opportunity to ask questions or share about rope topics/ties of your choosing and explore/learn as a group or a couple small groups. 

March's Primary Class/Lab:

“Armbinders And Strappado” with @Flynn_Racer and @-emmie-.
This will be a rope lesson on binding the arms behind the back, in conjunction with a chest harness, for floor play, partials or suspension.

Format for these evenings are as follows. 

Doors at 5:00
Primary Class/Lab: 5:15-6:45/7 
Skill Share Lab: 7-8:15
The space will close at 8:30 for non-members (those unaccompanied by a member)

How to attend

Those wishing to attend can request to do so by Email Obligerope@gmail.com please indicate in your DM if you will be, applying ropes, receiving ropes, switching or auditing. If we are not familiar with your skill set, we will reach out to discuss the prerequisites. Those wishing to audit only will be given the criteria at that time.

From there approved attendees will receive event details and ticketing links.

Prerequisites :

The expectation is that all attendees come with a practiced understanding of Japanese inspired rope bondage. What that looks like will be different for all of us. Basically if you feel comfortable following along and keeping up with most rope classes, you will be able to follow along and keep up here. If not you are always welcome to audit the class and soak up what you can. 

• People applying ropes should have a working understanding of suspension uplines and attaching styles. 

• People receiving ropes should have body awareness and be able to and willing to effectively communicate their limits while in ropes

• All attendees, tying or being tied, should have a good understanding of nerve risks and indicators of trouble. They should also be able to care for themselves and be accountable for their own tolerances while in an educational setting

• Attendees at any skill level are welcome to audit the class

• You will want a full rope kit and something to take notes
  This evening is designed for partnered tying, while the ticketing for the events is per individual. 

Announcing: Our “Naked Toga” Party

This event is by invite or approved request only

• If you've attended events with us before and are interested in this evening, please reach out and request attendance.

In ancient Rome, the wildest parties were called Bacchanalia, which were festivals dedicated to Bacchus, god of wine, freedom, intoxication and ecstasy…

Now, we don’t suggest you go all-in in terms of fidelity to the original Bacchanalia, but we definitely want to use this as inspiration.

First and foremost, everyone should wear a toga, the classic Roman robe. It’s easy to make one using a white blanket, sheet, or cloth – and there are several ways to wrap them around the body. To make things a bit sexier, make so the toga is the only thing you will be wearing at the party: Nothing else underneath 🥵

We will have some fruits and cheese set out and some small serving trays available should some of you decide you want to walk around and feed people or be fed. Feel free to bring your own sweets or other pleasure foods you may want to indulge with.

More details will be revealed with you formal invitation

Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.

Floggers! Yay!

Can’t get enough, Curious want to try, Ready to learn more?
Join @Serene_X and @GoldenCourtney as they walk you through it all.
Finding your flow and building the scene

They will be covering:

• Flogging Styles with style

• All your safety stuff

• Types of floggers

• Preparing for play from the bottom perspective

• Emotional release

• Bedroom Play

• Florentine? How to begin

Want to try? Service tops will be on hand to help you experience throwing or receiving floggers

Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

Find out more about Lex_red & Coyote

Instagram - @lex_red_ropes | @bigbadcoyote

Fet Life - @lex_red and | @ThatBigBadCoyote

Doors and Social Hour at 8:00

Performances @9:00

Play party until 1:00am

A Friday Night LEAP class with our out of presenters from St Louis, MO. @lex_red and @ThatBigBadCoyote. They will kicking off their weekend with us with their "Hogties" workshop highlighting a special foot cuff and tengu harness. This is a general admission class open to any experience level.

This class will be in-person only (no livestream or recording)

-This class with be a co-presented lecture, demo, “see and do” (tie along)

-This class will require 5-8 hanks of 8-10m rope.

-This class is designed as a partnered class, though some can be self tied and there is always value to being in the room. Often people attend without tying partners and there’s an opportunities for them to pair up. You are welcome to get ahead of things by posting in our group, and try to make some new friends to tie with. https://fetlife.com/groups/211293

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

What happens when two sadists share the same canvas?

Precision. Pressure. Power, layered with intention.

Synchronized Sadism explores the art of co-topping through control, communication, and calculated intensity. This is not chaos. This is not competition. This is two tops moving in alignment, reading each other, reading the bottom, and building sensation with purpose.

Featuring live demonstrations of structured two-on-one play that highlight how to maintain cohesion while amplifying intensity.
Two minds. Four hands. One experience.

Join @Sub_Sam as she attempts to survive @BrakebillsAlum and @ChiefDaddyJokes co-topping with a distinctly sadistic touch.

If you have ever wondered how to co-top without stepping on each other or what it feels like to be the bottom in the center of orchestrated intensity, this class is for you.

Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

This month's discussion:
Mental health profoundly shapes kink play, offering opportunities for therapeutic empowerment, trauma processing, and self-exploration, while also being influenced by anxiety, attachment styles, and stigma. Kink can serve as a tool to rewrite traumatic experiences and reclaim bodily autonomy, releasing dopamine and oxytocin, but it requires strong communication and emotional awareness.

Come share your our own thoughts/questions

Let’s talk it all through, share our experiences, help old and new friends find their path. 

This event focuses on community knowledge/experience sharing. Peer to peer learning and support. If you desire a greater understanding, have experience to share, or just want to take in more community lead education, please join us.

Peer to peer learning, sharing, and support. If you desire a greater understanding or something, have experience to share, or just want to take in more community lead education, please join us.

Social hour before and after the discussion.

These discussions are for experienced kinksters as much as those brand new to this world. It’s the wide cross section of our community that makes these discussion so powerful. Come on out to share, questions and explore it in your mind with the group.   

The Big O munch will be hosted at Oblige Rope, Kink, Art Boutique in Detroit. This is our monthly "Topic" munch where we discuss various subjects related to kink, polyamory, BDSM lifestyles and relationship enhancement. (See description above)

YOUR input is valuable! We all help to shape this community and kink culture. Come participate. Please.

Tickets HERE

Our Figure Drawing & Rope Jam Sunday -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

Tickets HERE

With the recent addition of "The Dungeon" at Oblige, attendees can now use the other half of the space to tie, play, socialize or relax durning the figure drawing.

This month there will be a figure-drawing opportunity at the Rope Jam. From 12:30-2:30, we will have models in rope for a few coordinated drawing sessions.
Three sessions will range from 20-30 minutes across different poses and different models. Oblige will have some materials on hand, but attendees should plan to bring their own sketching materials or tablets for digital sketches.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Our Open Play & Sunday Rope Jam -All are welcome, and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.

In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to come in, grab a coffee or tea, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.

Cost:

• Free for Members

• $10 for a Member’s Guest

• $20 for General Guests (50% for recent LEAP attendees)

No ticket sales at the door

Doors open at Noon. Come and go as you please until 5:00 PM.

FIVE years running now, our “Red” party is an annual event where attendees come out and use the idea of “Red”, and take it wherever they want. In years past that has been:

• Fire Fetishes

• Blood Play

• Red Asses

• Lingerie, Shoes, Latex

• Finding true limits

This is the one Saturday a month we let the sadists & brats run wild. Use this beautiful space in all the ways it was intended. (Seriously though, NO running, brats)

Edge players are encouraged to check in with DMs or owners before Needle Play, Fire Play, or other Edgy scenes begin.

Exhibitionists and Voyeurs are welcome. Come enjoy this wickedly kinky evening with us.

Dress to impress-

Not required but Wicked Weekends are the time to be “a little extra” with the attire and The Red Party has become famous for that little bit of extra flare. (Please don’t wear actual flares)

If going all out is not your thing, then however you are comfortable is fine.

Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.

Join Paul and Courtney as they work through some basics ties applied to floor play. Some playful and fun. Others painful and sadistic. All consisting of basic rope skills and body mechanics.

• Designed as a partnered class, though we always believe there’s value to being in the room with or without a tying partner.

• All experience levels welcomed. Presenters and teaching assistants will be on hand to help everyone at any point in their rope journey get the most out of class.

• This class with be a co-presented lecture, demo, “see and do” (tie along)

• The fundamentals of these ties will be covered in the 6:15-7:00 portion of the event.

• This class will require 3-5 hanks of 8-10m rope.

• Often people attend without tying partners and there’s an opportunities for them to pair up. You are welcome to get ahead of things by posting in our group, and try to make some new friends to tie with. https://fetlife.com/groups/211293

• If you are new to rope bondage or do not have a working understanding of the basics and fundamental you are strongly encouraged you attend the pre-class portion of the workshop at 6:00PM.

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

This event is by invite or approved request only

• If you've attended events with us before and are interested in this evening, please reach out and request attendance.

You are summoned to a sanctum of refined power and exquisite surrender at Oblige. This is not merely a play party; it is a curated space for the discerning power exchange player, a space where the intricate dance of devotion and command is revered. Here, within a framework of sacred High Protocol, we invite you to shed the mundane and step into the full expression of your D/s dynamic. This is an evening dedicated to the art of power exchange, designed for seasoned practitioners, devoted couples, and solitary seekers who yearn for a connection forged in honor, respect, and profound intensity.

More details will be revealed with you formal invitation

Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.

There’s a lot of talk about BDSM/Kink/Rope/ Sexual negotiations in our little kink world but not often are the tools and applications of said tools taught in a formal structured way. We explore the do’s and don’ts of negotiating all types of safer play for private one on one and public play. Their Negotiation Guide will assit you as a boiler plate conversation starter. Those that are well experienced as well as those new to this kinky world can benefit from the perspective of @Flynn_Racer and @-emmie-

Should you decide to practice what you’ve learned after class, all attendees are always welcome to stay and play or use the space "as they wish" (Make sure you READ the rules!!!)

Rope Basics Refresher / Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed

Saturday Night General Admission for our BDSM Symposium play party

If you are already attending the full weekend with us, this party is included with your ticket.

If you are looking to attend this party a la carte, ticket links are below.

About Wicked Weekend’s

This is the night to bring out the wild, unconventional, edgy play. It’s an evening designed for the kinkiest amongst us to feel uninhibited and unencumbered by what others think kink should look like. Edge players are encouraged to check in with DMs or owners before Needle Play, Fire Play, or other Edgy scenes begin.

Fetish Fashion Night is our Leather, Lace & Latex Night. Traditionally this is the night to be “a little extra” and enjoy your best fetish wear, whatever that may be.

Gas masks, Hoods, Chaps, Kilts, Tails, and Chains are heavily encouraged.

The entire Dungeon & Rope Room will be your runway and your playground

This is the one Saturday a month we open this private space for all you sadists and brats to run wild. (Seriously though Brats, NO RUNNING)

Exhibitionists and Voyeurs are welcome. Come enjoy this wickedly kinky evening with us.

Dress to impress- This is the night to be “A Little Extra”. Themed attire is preferred or “however you are comfortable”.

If you're looking for some cozy fetish wear check out https://droolapparel.com/

Doors at 8
Stay and play until 1 AM
Private members are welcome to watch the sun come up.

This is the general admission event for the Friday Night "Kick off" party for our BDSM Symposium.

If you are already attend the full weekend with us, this party is included in your tickets.

• *For a la catre tickets please see the links below

Performances featuring Fire, Impact, Rope, Whips, Burlesque, and More.

Voyeur and socialize or be part of the show and use this expansive play space as you see fit.

Our monthly Performance & Play evenings tend to be filled with theatrics, flare and amazing talent. This evening is expected to be nothing short of that. A lot of that in fact.

This is an evening for voyeurs and exhibitionist a like. Roam. Watch. Play as you wish.

Spanning “The Dungeon” and “The Rope Room”, guests are invite to stroll & watch and/or get involved & play, as they see fit throughout all 7,000 square feet of venue.

Come on out to enjoy the shows or become a part of it yourself.

A different “act” will start every 20-30 minutes throughout the space. Some overt. Some subtle. All matters of kink/BDSM performances will be on display.

Some Featured Performances:

• Impact Players

• Shibari Performers

• Pole Dancers

• Burlesque

• Fire players

• and More Kinky Shit.

Attendees are encouraged to play as they feel comfortable at any point in the evening, leaving others to wonder, what is part of the show and what’s not.

* TRIGGER WARNING #1: FIRE (WHITE GAS) WILL BE USED IN SCENES

* TRIGGER WARNING #2: SOME SCENES MAY INVOLVE BLOOD

* TRIGGER WARNING #3: STRONG VOCAL OUTBURSTS FROM PAIN MAY BE WITNESSED

Dress to impress. Formal, Fetish, Kinky AF or "however you're comfortable"

Doors and Social Hour at 7:00

Performances at 8:00

Play party until 1:00am

This is class is a vetted class with limited capacity. To attend please see the "How to attend" section below.

This is a new style event by community request. Very different from our LEAP classes. We like to think of it as a more advanced “intensive style” workshop. Somewhere we can really hone our skills, practice, progress, and become inspired.

Elevation Rope Lab is for those that already understand the fundamentals of Japanese inspired rope bondage. It’s a space to explore intermediate and advanced ropes concepts and skills during the primary class/lab. It is also an opportunity to ask questions or share about rope topics/ties of your choosing and explore/learn as a group or a couple small groups. 

February’s Primary Class/Lab:

Spellbound TK with @Serene_X and @GoldenCourtney. This is a “chest loading” box tie for those with sensitive arms and/or shoulders. We will cover the tie itself, multiple attachments points, use cases and variations. 

Format for these evenings are as follows. 

Doors at 5:00
Primary Class/Lab: 5:15-6:45/7 
Skill Share Lab: 7-8:15
The space will close at 8:30 for non-members (those unaccompanied by a member)

How to attend

Those wishing to attend can request to do so by DM or Email Obligerope@gmail.com Please indicate in your DM if you will be, applying ropes, receiving ropes, switching or auditing. If we are not familiar with your skill set, we will reach out to discuss the prerequisites. Those wishing to audit only will be given the criteria at that time.

Prerequisites :

The expectation is that all attendees come with a practiced understanding of Japanese inspired rope bondage. What that looks like will be different for all of us. Basically if you feel comfortable following along and keeping up with most rope classes, you will be able to follow along and keep up here. If not you are always welcome to audit the class and soak up what you can. 

• People applying ropes should have a working understanding of suspension uplines and attaching styles. 

• People receiving ropes should have body awareness and be able to and willing to effectively communicate their limits while in ropes

• All attendees, tying or being tied, should have a good understanding of nerve risks and indicators of trouble. They should also be able to care for themselves and be accountable for their own tolerances while in an educational setting

• Attendees at any skill level are welcome to audit the class

• You will want a full rope kit and something to take notes
  This evening is designed for partnered tying, while the ticketing for the events is per individual. 

“One of his greatest talents was empathy; no sadist can aspire to perfection without that diagnostic ability.” ~ Vernor Vinge

Class presented by @_MrNobody
“I am a sadist; I enjoy hurting people, watching them suffer, and knowing they’re in pain. Really think about that…how does that make you feel?"

This will be an In-person ONLY class. No livestream or recording.

In this class, we’re going to sit with and explore the idea of sadism. We’ll talk about what it is and different ways it can show up. We’ll also discuss where it comes from and whether you can learn to be sadistic if you’re not already. Most challenging, though, we’re going to think about the ethics of sadism, how we can justify it, and where we draw the line.

(I‘ll do my best not to make the class painfully boring.)

Social Hour: 6-7

Formal Class: 7-8:45(ish)
Stay & Play until 11:00

Learn, Explore, Apply, & Play. LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed