“Hashira Immersion Weekend”
Full event descriptions and Schedules
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We start Friday evening off by explaining the concept of a hashira and how to prepare a vertical pole for rope play / suspension by creating a variety of pole hard points. We will explore standing and seated ties, and will conclude by teaching the “classic” hashira suspension, where the bottom is upright with their back tied to the pole.
-4:30pm we will be in the space if anyone wants to come early and get the lay of the land (please reach out to us ObligeRope@gmail.com)
-6:00pm Social hour meet and greet
-7:00pm Introduction to Hashira
-10:00pm-11:00pm Open Time to enjoy the space
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Saturday Morning Using the Pole as a Co-Top
The pole is much more than just a series of hard points. It is an imposing physical character in the scene. This session will teach: (1) the breadth of play possibilities on the pole; (2) how pole play can be a series of dynamic transitions through a continuous D/s experience, and (3) how time on the pole can actually teach the players the skill of giving and receiving dominant touch.
This session will also teach additional variations of “classic” hashira suspension that was introduced the night before.
Saturday Afternoon: Pole Variations
This session will go beyond the “classic” hashira suspension and cover other variations such has side suspension, full inversion, and vertical hog ties.
-9:00am Doors open
-10:00am-12:00pm Hashira Lab Morning sessions: Using the Pole as a Co-Top
-12:00pm-1:00pm Lunch
-1:00pm-3:00pm Hashira Lab Afternoon Session: Pole Variations
-3:00pm-8:00pm Dinner Break & Party Prep: Immersion attendees are welcome to stay and tie, nap, relax in the space
(we will be cleaning and prepping the venue for the evening’s performance event during this time)
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Wicked Weekend’s - The "Wet" Party - LGBTQIA+ and friends welcomed
Sixth Annual Summer “Wet” Party at Oblige
This signature party has been amongst our more mysterious and coveted parties. Attendees take this theme in any and all directions making “wet” dreams come true and adding to Oblige lore.
More About The “Wet” Party
2021: we found attendees sporting wet t-shirts, edging each other and something called the "cake pool"
2022: was jello wrestling, squirting contest and a boat
2023: The Boat survived another year. Infamous members showed us how they do. Squirting contest solidified it’s spot in the mix along with “other wet” acts.
2024: “The Dungeon” 🎤🫳
2025: Was the year of super soakers, water sports and waterboarding
2026: ??? Let’s see what you cum up with (Try to not get us canceled)
You can plan on:
-The boat being back
-T-shirt give away 😜
-Play sheets to get messy on
For us:
-Lots of laundry
-Floor cleaning
-Yelling and brats for running
Bring your own supplies for your own thing and a plan to clean up after yourselves. No shower drain clogs this year, please. Keep the unfractionated coconut oil at home and please remove ALL cake and frosting from your body before showering. We have squeegees for you if needed.
Edge players are encouraged to check in with DMs or owners before Needle Play, Fire Play, or other Edgy scenes begin.
Exhibitionists and Voyeurs are welcome. Come enjoy this wickedly kinky evening with us.
Dress to impress- Kink and fetish wear are fine. Themed attire is preferred or “however you are comfortable.”
-8:00pm Doors open
Kinky AF Play Party Until -1:00am
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Our Figure Drawing & Rope Jam Sunday -
Special focus on modles in hashira shapes. Featuring Mr_Arrow, subzq and more.
Following the figure drawing sessions our presenters will be on hand to assist with and coach the “imerison" weekend” attendees if requested.
"The Dungeon" is OPEN.
All are welcome and any type of BDSM or kinky play is encouraged.Figure-drawing opportunity at the Rope Jam. From 12:30-2:30ish, we will have models in rope for a few coordinated drawing sessions.
Three sessions will range from 20-30 minutes across different poses and different models. Oblige will have some materials on hand, but attendees should plan to bring their own sketching materials or tablets for digital sketches.
In general, this is meant to be an open, unstructured time for you to grab a coffee or tea for a local cafee, come in, relax, tie, skill share, and play. There’s no requirement to partake in the figure-drawing portion of the day. If this is not your thing, you are welcome to simply use the space however you wish during this time.
-12:00pm Doors open
-12:30am-2:20pm Figure drawing sessions (Free time in The Dungeon and the Rope Room)
-Until 5:00pm Use the Space as you wish.