Shibari and Erotic Rope performances are the cornerstone of our Performance and Play event at Oblige. This month we are welcomeing two very special out of town guests, @lex_red & @ayjay99

Please join for an 80's aerobics themed rope performance that shows off the incredible strength and flexibility of AJ, and the smooth dynamic transitions that lex_red is known for.

Attendees are welcome to dress however they are comfortable, though dress wear and kink/fetish wear are always appreciated. If you like to be "a little extra," this is the place to do that. After the performance, feel free to stay and play. Use the space as it was intended. Explore “The Dungeon” and Enjoy “The Rope Room." Find all of the space's hidden features... 😈

About our Performers

@lex_red

Lex_red (she/her) is a rope switch whose style focuses on technicality and comfortability in dynamic suspensions. As a top, her motto is "help me hurt you" and she enjoys tying partners in complex suspensions with a focus on making them as comfortable and safe as possible. She identifies as a “facilitator of pain” more than a sadist, and enjoys collaborative ties where bottoms are an active participant in where the tie goes. She has been in the community for over 10 years and teaches rope classes and workshops for all levels.

@ayjay99

AJ (she/they) joined the kink scene in August 2023 and has consistently practiced rope bondage since then. She hails from Tulsa, Oklahoma where she co-runs rope education at her home dungeon 13thfloor.  AJ considers herself both a selftier and rope switch.  As a bottom, they adore physically strenuous ties that push their body’s limits. She approaches rope from a strictly platonic space where either the goal is deepening a friendship and exhibiting levels of trust, building technical skills, or goofing around and being downright silly.

Doors and Social Hour at 8:00

Performances @9:00

Play party until 1:00am